Friday, 17 April 2009

Quote

from Neil Strauss, from the beginning of his book, The Lifestyle Challenge:(yes it somehow reveals my strong relation and 100000000 links to my beloved parents)

'To your mother and father. Feel free to blame them for everything that's wrong with you, but don't forget to give them credit for everything that's right.'

My admiration is just increasing when I firstly started working 3 years ago, not to mention my recent baby-sitting experiences...
If you ask me, it is incredibly amazing and expressive.  Earlier I sadly experienced that the vast majority of the people have a very bad relationship with parents, mostly because they think their approach for the world is just too obsolete. I am trying to remember to collect some memories from past, both positive and negative as well. It is very easy to notice that people from western and more individualistic cultures have weaker relations in genereal, I mean the distance between parents and sons/daughters is bigger...

- 'My Dad was just happy that alcohol prices are so high here due to legislation' - Swedish
+ 'More than half of my friends are >for sale<, but not me, my Dad studied at Oxford, so hes got his western thinking.' - Indonesian
+ I was in a cinema with some people, one of them a Persian girl , in the middle of the movie, suddenly stood up, and went out. Later on, we asked her, what happened, she responded: 'I forgot to call my Father, even though I promised him to do so. So I went out and called.' - Iran
- 'I hated my Dad, so when i was admitted to university, I left to our other apartment. My Mum wanted to also move with me, but I convinced her not to get divorced and stay with my Dad.' - Hungary


1 comment:

Unknown said...

So true. I have the same feeling about parents - children relationships.